If you follow these 20 rules you will recapture her heart: really listen to her, take her problems seriously, talk to her frequently, notice her more often (not just when you want sex), say thank you more often, be interested in what she’s interested in, show her affection when you are around others, discuss each other’s goals, remember her with gifts when she is not expecting one, take her on dates, include her in things that matter to you, understand her feelings – don’t try to fix them, participate in her interests, hold her closely frequently, be humble and kind, if you are blessed with children help her discipline them gently, speak words of kindness to her, accept her just the way she is, spend time with her family and friends – and make her feel like a special woman. Not so hard, right?