First, we need to recognize we need to move on from where we are – that we need help. From God. We cannot lose sight of the fact that God is not done with us yet. Bad things happen to good people. What happened to us may have been beyond our control – or not. We need to confess our part in our mess. Seek God’s Word daily and look and listen for His still, small voice encouraging us to change. Am I with the wrong crowd – seeking their approval, not God’s? Most importantly, give in to God’s leading us down a different path.