I have a habit of saying “yes” too much, I think. I’m afraid of letting others down. So what I’m trying to do now in my life is to open doors for others to help and serve. But most of all I need to set boundaries for myself. That emotion that rises up when you know you already have a full plate and someone asks you to do one more thing – needs to be acknowledged. We need to set our emotional and financial limits. We also need to avoid certain situations that may just not be right for us because they involve unsafe people. We can’t always be the hero.