Most of us know people who have gotten married to “find” love – or they have surprised their husband with a pregnancy hoping that will solidify love. The only one who can show us how to love is God. He first loved us. Sometimes that’s really hard when we end up with parents who made growing up tough. He has most likely used that to teach us character and endurance. Great faith only comes from great testing. Sometimes we just need to change ourselves – and love will grow.