Transforming one’s spirit requires that we give up a lot of our own selfish desires (or rights as many call them) in order to put another person first. Some call that “dying to yourself.” The new person is almost like a new resurrected spirit. Resurrection requires a power that can only come from God. The result? Resurrection love. We don’t need to spiritual nourishment from others, but can find it in God’s grace. Even though it may not be a physical death, we are laying down our life for another.