We’re all guilty of that to some extent because most of us are somewhat insecure. A secure person would care what others think. How do we become more secure? We need to stop living in valleys – fear, conflicts and grief – and keep moving toward the hills. The view from the top will build an understanding of God’s purpose for your life. Peace of mind will replace being defined by what others think. None of us can be perfect. Instead, let’s just be common folk loving others and being loved in return.