It’s not – it’s harder than anyone could describe. There’s no training manual. But God did give us parents and other loved ones. They can help to get us through the tough times. Life is a continual training cycle. Suffering brings perseverance and that helps to regain hope and hope builds character. So have no fear! For every tall gate with a lock on it there is key to open it up to God’s Kingdom that is hear and now, sort of like going through the wardrobe into Narnia. So don’t repress problems – learn from those you trust, learn from God, and continue training. The old saying is so true “I’m under construction – God isn’t finished with me yet!”