Why is that? I think it’s because we don’t trust the other person with the big stuff. Probably the best way to overcome that is to start trusting them with the small things first, then give them more rope. When I do it for them, I then take charge of them and the responsibility that goes with it. For me, I have to learn to correct without condemning because, really, the correction is for the future, not the past – right? Don’t correct when you’re angry because then it’s about getting back at them – and that sure won’t help.