Planning is good. Reacting is not. Why? It’s based on emotion. Emotions are not reliable. God gave us a brain for one reason – to counter our emotions. Emotions are a red flag….but they only stop you. We need to wait for reason to prevail. We can’t continue to behave as we did when we were children – when everything was overwhelming. Focus on what is good and productive…..God wouldn’t have any evil planned for us. Find the solution with your mind.