Mistakes are a part of life – and not just yours. Others will offend you – sometimes unknowingly. When I learn from my mistakes I need to help others not make the same mistakes. It works for them, too. But when you are wronged what happens next is crucial to our well-being going forward. Harboring bitterness only holds us back – not the person who wronged you. Once they figure it out and ask for forgiveness, that is a gift you can give them in return. It works both ways.