Remember showering your spouse with praise and positive vibes when you were dating? Not so much now, huh? This is how marriages grow stale. Instead, love them every day as if they were the most important people in the world – because they are! This means showing affection every day – not just when you want sex – and especially being kind and affectionate when others are around. It makes them feel worthy. Speak words of kindness, not harsh tones – we weren’t built to take frequent negative attacks. They slowly destroy us. Try harder to learn to like what they like – they feel included in your life as a result. Communicate better – this means listening, too – not just speaking your own mind. If we do these things we can rekindle the spark that was there in the beginning.