We all want a lot. A few of us want to be left alone. But most of us need more. Otherwise what’s the point? We’re here for a reason. Here’s what I’ve learned (and I want more learning) so please respond: (1) frequent contacts with the ones we enjoy (2) Intimacy with one other (our soul mate?) (3) we need the totality of their commitment to us (4) authenticity in their relationship to us (5) appreciation for us the way we are (6) to be able to trust them. I’m sure you can add a few more….So then – we need to offer these things to those who are important to us as well….