But was it good or bad? They had an impression on you and you made an impression on them. So it’s important to have the right intentions before the encounter – the right motives. People are effected by actions but your spirit is crushed when you don’t have the right attitude. You can’t pretend. People won’t buy it. So clear your mind of selfish motives and make the connection a genuine one. Be willing to agree – or at least not challenge the other’s views. Not now – otherwise it becomes a debate. A debate should be planned when dispositions are prepared for a debate. Approach every meeting with someone with a pure heart and a goal to preserve the relationship long term. Be sincere – really sincere.